#InnerChild #MeetYourInnerChild #ConnectInnerChild
#Free (do see the youtube links shared in end. they are wow. i just loved them)
Myself Beena From ShivMira Training Center
Many of you know what inner child is.
Most people do therapies worth lakh of rupees to get healed or just connect to the inner child.
Lots of theories and philosophy is written on this matter.
Many dont even get solution after years of therapies or spending so much money.
(Feel that all the investment was needed and necessary as per some past life karma. And give blessings)
So here i give my short definition of what InnerChild means.
Now you are more than 20 years
You live in full discipline.
(which you keep breaking – Just for enjoyment)
The rules broken now are mostly
(family rules- Office rules- Society Rules made to unite all and keep most equal in terms of time-work-respect etc.)
1) Out of frustration.
2) Out of lack of love.
3) Out of feel of extra burden.
4) Out of jealousy.
5) Out of peer pressure.
6) Out of shame.
🔮🔮Example 1)its a fashion for having monthly or weekly *friends with family (only nuclear) meet at dinners.
*Office colleagues and or family meet.
Even if your extended family dont allow. Still rules are broken and this is attended.
NOT for enjoyment.
BUT to prove others that you take own decision.
🍀Elders approval not needed.
🍀You have more than enough to spend out.
🍀Show off vehicles.
🍀Show off clothes.
man as well as wife buy stuff which will help show off or make then feel part of the group. Its ok that you dnt like those BUT its bought.
There is more of gossip and pulling leg. Comments on dress or business or job or parenting ways.
🔮🔮Example 2) Birthday parties.(self or kid)
Minimum 3 to 4 parties must.
Society. Family. Class. Office.
Again here too just show off.
Even if the kid dnt like the crowd. They need to attend for your reputation.
Even if the family member is sick. they have to arrange the best.
Money may or may not be important.
If one is less in status than others. There is always loan.
But its must to fit in.
Later the person has a fake smile and zero peace.
🍀💜I or anyone else has NO issues with this.💜🍀
BUT think bout this. Out of 10 close friends one cannot afford. The males still force as its for a change. And when times may change . He can repay.
🔮🔮Example 3)Picnic for our kids (even school)
Higher the fees-better would be the standard.
Education or learning or enjoyment? Let it be zero. But its a proud feel to tell that My kid goes to xyz school with 6 figure fees per year. Its ok that learning is less. as (what ever lame reason)
Now where does the INNER child comes in picture?
When you were a kid
All the grp of friends were kids
🍀💜We had the monthly or weekly meets at ONE of the houses.
Fine as per size. only few houses were chosen. BUT the food n all was shared. Each bought food from home.(pre-decided who will get what) And that very friend which we knew cannot get anything. We all (closest friends) saved our pocket money and gave it to that friend and asked to get party plates & cold drinks.
Even if we has same dishes always. No one complained. there was more connection more enjoyment.
🍀💜The birthday parties used to be at home.
No gifts Not even hoch poch food
BUT the very very thing of getting invited WAS the most proud feel. And to such a friend or class mate house who was not in good terms. Getting invited meant FULL FORGIVENESS and start of a beautiful friendship.
🍀💜We went for picnic.
Here too all Mom’s (be it house wife or wrking) Woke up early. Made wow and long lasting food. Also for friends.
There was abundant food with all. We all shared. and again that very friend who forgot to get the Tiffin -gets to eat without guilt or feeling ashamed.
We did play mischief with friends BUT that never cost their pride or life.
CAN you do same what you did as kids? NOW?
All parties in one single formal or casual dress for both male n female?
All parties with just same hotel or same dishes made by u n family?
without judging anyone’s cooking?
and just more connecting
IF NOT all But can u just be happy daily and have a peaceful sleep? Living with all your responsibilities with peace and pride and making whole family happy?
Leaving all guilt out?
Teaching ur kids to be happy always?
Then CONGRATS you reached your inner child.
The very source of full happiness.
That gets you more success.
more meaning to life
to whole family.
Some more tips i liked in an advt of a fruit drink.
these examples are wow.
pls see and you will know
HOW to start connecting to your inner child
How to be happy again.
blessings and bliss